Geez!! I am sick of it, the drama I mean! Something is wrong with this one lady in my building! Sunday night, while the kids were playing basketball, I was accused of yelling at a few of the kids. What I was doing was making the game fair by insisting that the captains play by the REAL rules. One of the captains was so loud that I had to yell over him! Imagine that!! Anyway, the mom in question wasn’t there and her kids lied to her.
Later that night, this same mom and a few other women came to my door and literally beat my door down! She said that she was gonna take me out. Really?? What she doesn’t know is I could take her out if I wanted to but why do it? All it would get me is a prison sentence, right? Anyway, my response to her was “whatever” and “I had no idea what she was talking about.”
People, in general, wonder why I “take” such abuse. The truth is I don’t. I CHOOSE to walk away. Until someone FORCES MY HAND, I will NOT fight. Reason? I’m the one who will get the prison sentence, not them! In fact, my instructors say that “martial arts without philosophy is just a street fight.” Reality is that prople with a “kick your ass” mentality just want street fights where the odds are on their side. It’s much better to walk away. My kids and my daughter’s boyfriend learned a valuable lesson that night because they witnessed the entire ordeal.
Another person who learned something was the six-year old I was babysitting. During the whole ordeal I already mentioned, he witnessed it and the fact that I chose not to fight. This little boy is constantly in trouble. Only time will tell if he follows my example. Also, I’m accused of beating this boy!! Anyone, who knows me, knows I would NEVER do that! This child was crying because his foot was hurting him. Because I was taking care of business that would take only 5 minutes, I wasn’t in the room. However, to his aunt’s credit, she did inform me what was going on and the problem was solved… Or so I thought! The same women who charged me door also accused me of beating him. Didn’t happen though. It goes to show that some people are as ignorant as ignorant can be! The leader of these women doesn’t take very good care of herself and her daughter, who is the same age as my daughter, is pregnant and due in June!! What these women SHOULD do is stop judging me. I can’t help that she apparently didn’t teach her daughter right.
I’m VERY strict with my kids. Neither one have records and neither one have kids of their own. I have occasional problems but they are good kids. I worry about how they will transition to high school but I guess every mom does. They are beginning to prove to me that I can loosen the reigns a little…
Anyway, some people are just plain ignorant!! If this weekend has taught me anything, and it did, I learned (actually was reminded of) that you just have to cover your behind because no one else will…